geez i cant belive it's been 4 years already.... seems like just yesterday u were at the house drinking coffe watchin soaps. I miss them days sumtimes i wonder how they'd be now then i'm glad u r not here on this earth 2 face the wars money issues all the heartache tears& suffering. I miss you after 4 years i feel u stronger than ever around me i know u r always with me! i'm so glad for all the fun that we've had. i dont know y but 4 sum reason i sum how convinced myself it was goin 2 be 5 years this year and I was like "what? where'd the 1 year go??" cause i was like thinkin back& addin all the years up& it just didnt make sence to me how'd it'd be 5 years!!!! lol but i love u& think of u always!!!.....
4 yrs today.. / Barb Davis (Sister)
Well 4 years later Im still here.. How I made it this far without u is a miricale.. I miss u Patti. We all miss u so damn much... There r many times u r with me. Its a good thing All r stupidity and jokes we pulled on people. still lingers in me cos of u. Love u and Miss the hell out of u Love Barb Close
miss you so much / JoAnne Bierzynski (sister)Read >>
miss you so much / JoAnne Bierzynski (sister)
I love you and miss you you will always be in my heart. Close
still missing my little sister / JoAnne Bierzysnki (sister)
another year today that I won't get my birthday card with that special lucky lottery ticket, I miss those days. I lost another friend to cancer yesterday, so much has changed since you passed. One thing that has not changed is how much I still miss you. I think of you every day. I prayytou are at peace. Close
Help us / Barb Davis (sister)
Patti, Please come to ur family, help them them feel ur presense, John misses u SOO MUCh. you r the love of his lfe, He will never stop loving u, He needs u RIGHT NOW, Show him u r with him. I love u sis C u soon Close
Happy Thanksgiving Patti I wish u were here, I spoke with Kim today, She is battling cancer, she may be with u b4 me! Patti Please watch over Booger He needs to feel ur presense more than ever right now. Well the Aerosmith mobile is now with u. I had some good memories in that car , We had some good times chasing Aerosmith! Heck we even had Brad Whitfords bus driver ride in that car!! Shine it up for me and once I get to u , we will chase Aerosmith again!
To honor your memory / JoAnne Bierzynski (Sister)Read >>
To honor your memory / JoAnne Bierzynski (Sister)
Patti,
I miss you so much, I have a lot of questions and only you have the answers...I miss the days I could just pick up the phone and call or wait for your call, we used to solve the whole world's problems...LOL. I am glad I was able to fight for you when you were too weak to fight anymore and I know in my heart you felt my love as I felt yours.
I know you are up there with mom and dad and Porky and Busi and Uncle Eddie and there is enough love for everyone up there...please send some love down this way. This world would be better place with a little more kindness and love to spread around! Give mom and dad a kiss and hug from me...they were the best parents in the world and I miss them too. Let's all remember the meaning of this web site...to honor your memory and to help save lives through awareness.
HI, Patti, I miss u so much! I dont know what all that got started 4,but I hope & prey u r not mad wtih me 4 speakin my mind, cause that's 1 thing u always told me was importnant. To speak up and not be shy! And well as u can see I have changed. JUut a lil! So I wish I could still call u, and u pick up & anwser the phone. Or u could right back, but when I dream of u, I know u r there!
I wonder what heaven is like? I don't want 2 die, but i can not wait 2 be back with u, Jonh, Porky, AND OF COURSE GARANDMA!!! WE ALL MISS ALL OF U GUYS SO DAMN MUCH!!! GRANNY IF U CAN HEAR ME I LOVE U & MISS U DEARLY!
I KNOW I', MOT STUPID, I KNOW I'M NOT DUMB, AND I ALSO KNOW THAT I AM NOT THE MOST BRIGHTEST PERSON IN THIS WORLD. BUT I WILL SUCEED IN ALL I WANT TO DO! U ALWAYS HAVE BELIVED IN ME, AND HOPEFULLY NEVER STOP BELIVING! I HAVE MORE STRENGTH NOW THAN EVER BEFORE, LOOSIN U AND EVERY1 ELSE HAS PUT A TOLL IN MY LIFE, BUT ALSO BUILT UP MY HEART. AND IT IS EADY 4 WHAT EVER GOD AS READY 2 THROW AT ME!!!
I CAN SAY WAHTEVER AND DO WHATEVER, ALL THOUGH NONE OF THESE THINGS WILL EVER CHANGE ANYTHING, AND I DO NOT WANT 2 CHANGE A SINGLE THING IN MY LIFE!
I LOVE U, I WILL ALWAYS LOVE U, AND MISS U SO MUCH IT'S NOT EVEN FUNNY! LOVE TIFFANY!!!!!!!!!!!! ALWAYS THINKIN OF U!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Patti, We all know u r so much better off then the rest of us. All ur suffering from ur illness to ur life at home is behind u Thank God for that As I promised u b4 ur passed away , I would never repeat r last conversation we had. Im sorry that I did speak out some of the coversation but I just couldnt keep quiet anylonger, not when :ur side of the family: is being trashed by the other.
[THIS part deleted. Keep family disputes off Patti's memorial page. This is NOT the place for it.]
..I AM GLAD and so is Tiff that I QUIT my job and put Tiff in home school so we could be by ur side.. Im glad u wanted me and Tiff with u ..I think some people r jealous u chose me and Tiff.. Tiff and I had the best relationship with u..a relationship that no one could of ever took away. Many family members r bothered by that As for me and Tiff we SMILE everyday We love u and we will see u on the other side!
Dear Mom / Kristie Chism (DAUGHTER)
First off I know this message will be deleted because this site was made for my moms side of the family to sit around and feel sorry for themselves. I was also told that anything wrote on website is written to my mother and has nothing to do with anyone else, so that is what i'm going to do.
Dear mom,
First off I love you.
It was recently stated from your sister that the "whole chism" family wasn't by your side while you were in the hospital dying. So I would like to let you know why...Bj had an infant son and another one in diapers and couldn't be there for you the whole time. Little john is an emotional wreck and deals with things the best he can, I had a job and bills to pay as did dad. He HAD to work to pay the house payment on the house he BOUGHT for you and booger was only 12 years old and ACTUALLY went to school unlike other people. I'm sorry that we work for a living and aren't unemployed and homeschooled like the other people who were able to be there the whole time. It was also stated that you choose to die because you didn't want to deal with us kids. Which is a complete lie. You loved us more than anything in the whole world, we knew that then and know it to this day.
[THIS part deleted. Keep family disputes off Patti's memorial page. This is NOT the place for it.] I wish you were here to see the first granddaughter. She's going to be BEAUTIFUL. John is doing ok and Tiffanys gonna make a great mother. Tiffany has a beautiful figure and the best hair ever, I can't wait to see what Lynzie Anne looks like (yea shes gonna have your middle name). Dayton and Calvin are so fucking amazing. You would be proud of Bj and Klint and the kids they made. Booger is a mess. He really needs an ass beating. Hopefully he'll grow out of it. As for dad....he's still the same. Working when he can. He really misses you. He has a new girlfriend named Christine. You had to of sent her to him because she's awesome. I'm glad he found someone and I know you are too because he's to young to be alone forever. As for me, I'm working, and I have the most amazing boyfriend ever. He really treats me like a princess... you would LOVE him. I love you and miss you more then anything. And just because i'm living a normal life as is the rest of chism family it doesn't mean we don't love you or miss you. We just know that life goes on and it only gets eaiser.
What I Learned This Year / Tia Wood (unrelated sister )Read >>
What I Learned This Year / Tia Wood (unrelated sister )
I'll see you again one day, Patti!
There was this woman who reminded me of you who was in the hospital in a coma earlier this year. Her husband tried so hard to help her. He raised money to bring her to a special facility to treat her condition. Everyone tried to help keep his spirits up. He was a firefighter but the city wouldn't cover his wife's medical expenses.
He tried and tried for months but she would never improve. Finally, he had to make the decision to unplug her from life support. It was heartbreaking because it reminded me of what you and the family went through.
Then I realized something. It doesn't matter how hard a person tries, how hard a person wishes or how hard a person wants. When it's someone's time to go, it's someones time to go. Just as we all have "a time to go", it was your time to depart three years ago.
We all surely miss you. But I know we will all see you again, no doubt.
3 years, I will never stop missing you / JoAnne Bierzynski (sister)Read >>
3 years, I will never stop missing you / JoAnne Bierzynski (sister)
Patti,
I woke up this morning with a heavy heart. I hate August 25th, I wish I could erase this day forever because you would still be here.
Your passing has impacted so many people, nothing is the same without you. I miss your calls, I miss your smiles, but most of all I miss you. I hope you are at peace. You deserve that much. You are in my heart not just today but every day. Little sister , I am so much less with out you. I miss you.
GOD WE MISS U!!!!! / Tiffany Petardi (Neice)Read >>
GOD WE MISS U!!!!! / Tiffany Petardi (Neice)
Patti, OMG, I can't belive how long u've been gone, I have finally relized that u r not coming back, butt I do know that u still come 2 visit me in my sleep, when ever i have a dream bout u & me, the next morning i wake up and I feel so RELAXKED, and PEACEFUL. I know ur here with us most of the time, I can still feel u around me, lots of times, wether it be while watching movies, playin games, or jusr round drinking coffe in the living room. AND BELIVE ME I KNOW THAT U R SO NOT PROUD OF ME AND BOOGS 4 SOME OF THE THINGS WE'VE BEEN DOIN! BUTT PLEASE FORGIVE US! WE R ONLY TEENAGERS WITH NO EXUSE AND A BIG HOLE N OURS HEARTS! WE BOTH KNOW IT'S NOT RIGHT, BUTT IT WONT LAST 4EVER! NOTHING LAST S FOREVER, UNFORTNLEY NOT! BUTT, DON'T GET ME WRONG WHEN WE R BOUT 2 HIT A JOINT WE STOP AND LOOK AT EACH OTHER AND SAY IF MOM WERE HERE SHE WOULD BEAT UR HEADS IN! LOL, AND WHENEVER WE FEEL UR PRESENCE NEAR US WHILE SMOKIN WE STOP SMOKIN THINKING U MIGHT THROW SOMTHING AT US! AND WE ALWAYS SAY THAT WHEN WE GET 2 HEAVEN WE GOT AN ASSBEATIN WAITIN 4 US! IF THERE IS 1 THING I AM ABLOUSTLY SURE OF THAT'S U! I KNOW U BROUGHT BOOGER AND ME CLOSER 2GETHER AGAIN BECAUSE WE NEEDED 2 BE, WHEN HE CALLED ME SO UPSET THAT 1 NITE, I KNEW I WASN'T THERE 4 HIM LIKE I SHOULDA BEEN, IT SEEMS LIKE AFTER U PASSED BOOGER AND I WEREN'T AS CLOSE ANYMORE, LIKE WE JUST SORTA DERFITED APART FROM EACH OTHER , AND IT WASN'T THE RIGHT THING 2 DO. NOW THAT WE TALK EVERYDAY & NITE, WE FEEL JUST LIKE WE USED 2 CEPT 2 1 THIGN IS STILL MISSING, U! WE KNOW U R THERE BUTT SEEIN UR FACE WOULD MAKE US ALL FEEL BETTER, ASHLEY & I WERE TALKIN BOUT UR "HOMEADE ICED TEA", I'LL NEVER TELL UR SECERT! OR ELSE U'LL CHOP UR HEADS OFF RITE? LOL, I REALLY MISS U, I WOULD PROBALLY KILL TO SPEND 1 MORE AFTERNOON SHOPPING WTIH U, OR 1 MORE NITE AT THE MOVEIS, OR 1 MORE LONG DAY AT THE BEACH! I REMBER ALL THE THINGS WE USED 2 DO, I DON'T HAVE THE BEST MEMORY BUT BOGGER HAS HELPED THAT COME BACK 2 ME, LIKE LITTLE THINGS HERE & THERE ,ALL THE BIGGER & GREATER THINGS HOW COULD ANY OF US EVER 4GET THEM? OR U? I STILL CRY AND IN MY HEART I STTILL FEEL THE PAIN AND I DON'T KNOW IF IT'S A GOOD THING 2 SAY OR A BAD THING BUTT IT DOSE NOT HURT AS BAD ANYMORE, IF ANYTHING IT ACTUALLY FEELS GOOD 2 WATCH OLD HOME VIDEOS & HERE U LAUGH, SEE U SMILE, WATCH OUR OLD EVERYDAY ACTIVITES WE USED 2 DO. I STILL BALL LIKE A BABY WHEN I DO SEE THEM THOUGH. AND OMG UR GRAND KIDS R DROP DEAD GORUEOUS!!!!! DAYTON AND CLAVIN R SO BEATIFUL! BJ, KRISTIE, JOHN, BOOGER THEY ALL R GOOD AND WELL AND MISS U LUV U LIKE CRAZY! BUT I DO NOT LIKE BABY JONS NEW GIRL FRIEND AT ALL, SHE LOOKS LIKE A STUCK UP BITCH! I LUV U SO MUCH & I MISS U WITH ALL MY HEART & I KNOW BIG JOHN STILL DOES, TOO I KNOW U SENT KRISTINE 2 HIM. THANK SO MUCH PATTI 4 ALL THE HELP U HAVE GIVEN ME, ALL THE LOVE U SHOW ME, AND ALL THE GOOD TIMES U TOUGHT ME 2 HAVE! LUV U WITH ALL MY HEART NEVER LET U GO! NOT EVEN IF U TELL ME WHAT IT TAKES TO LET YOU GO!!!!1 MUHH KISSES AND HUGSS LUV U AND MISS U LUV U AHH MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! GOD BLESS U OATTI, I DON'T WANNA STOP WRITTING OR LET THIS LETTER GO, BUT I GUESS I AHVE 2 CAUSE MOMS RUSHIN ME, PS HELP HER GET RID OF HER LIL BOY TOY PLZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOVE U SO MUCHES AHMAN! <3
3yrs today / Barb Davis (Sister)
Hi Patti, Today is 3 years that u left us... As the time goes on I still miss u as much as the day u left this earth. I dont think Ill ever be the same without u. I still want to call u at times, I miss u so much Patti.. Life does go on but it will never be the same Love u always, Barb Close
nevada/ Barbara Davis (sister)
Hi Patti, Well Joanne, Diane and I went to Lake Tahoe Nevada and I took u with me, U also went to the Sammy hargar concert with us, Thanks 4 letting me meet Sammy! love u and miss u Barb Close
an angel to watch over you / Wendy Jones (friend of joanne )Read >>
an angel to watch over you / Wendy Jones (friend of joanne )
My thots & prayers are with your family that miss you so much Patti. I know you are an angel watching,guiding & protecting them. They hurt because they miss you. I know your not suffering where you are now....may your family be strong & keep the fun.love & memories close to their heart. BLESS YOU ALL AS PATTI IS YOUR GURADIAN ANGEL!
I will never forget you / JoAnne Bierzynski (sister)Read >>
I will never forget you / JoAnne Bierzynski (sister)
I just couldn't look at your website during the Holidays. I miss you so much and I will never stop missing you. it is so wrong that you are gone. I love you Patti. Close
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