What I Learned This Year  / Tia Wood (unrelated sister )
I'll see you again one day, Patti!

There was this woman who reminded me of you who was in the hospital in a coma earlier this year. Her husband tried so hard to help her. He raised money to bring her to a special facility to treat her condition. Everyone tried to help keep his spirits up. He was a firefighter but the city wouldn't cover his wife's medical expenses.

He tried and tried for months but she would never improve. Finally, he had to make the decision to unplug her from life support. It was heartbreaking because it reminded me of what you and the family went through.

Then I realized something. It doesn't matter how hard a person tries, how hard a person wishes or how hard a person wants. When it's someone's time to go, it's someones time to go. Just as we all have "a time to go", it was your time to depart three years ago.

We all surely miss you. But I know we will all see you again, no doubt.

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3 years, I will never stop missing you  / JoAnne Bierzynski (sister)

Patti,

I woke up this morning with a heavy heart. I hate August 25th, I wish I could erase this day forever because you would still be here.

Your passing has impacted so many people, nothing is the same without you. I miss your calls, I miss your smiles, but most of all I miss you. I hope you are at peace. You deserve that much. You are in my heart not just today but every day. Little sister , I am so much less with out you. I miss you.

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GOD WE MISS U!!!!!  / Tiffany Petardi (Neice)

Patti, OMG, I can't belive how long u've been gone, I have finally relized that u r not coming back, butt I do know that u still come 2 visit me in my sleep, when ever i have a dream bout u & me, the next morning i wake up and I feel so RELAXKED, and PEACEFUL. I know ur here with us most of the time, I can still feel u around me, lots of times, wether it be while watching movies, playin games, or jusr round drinking coffe in the living room. AND BELIVE ME  I KNOW THAT U R SO NOT PROUD OF ME AND BOOGS 4 SOME OF THE THINGS WE'VE BEEN DOIN! BUTT PLEASE FORGIVE US! WE R ONLY TEENAGERS WITH NO EXUSE AND A BIG HOLE N OURS HEARTS! WE BOTH KNOW IT'S NOT RIGHT, BUTT IT WONT LAST 4EVER! NOTHING LAST S FOREVER, UNFORTNLEY NOT! BUTT, DON'T GET ME WRONG WHEN WE R BOUT 2 HIT A JOINT WE STOP AND LOOK AT EACH OTHER AND SAY IF MOM WERE HERE SHE WOULD BEAT UR HEADS IN! LOL, AND WHENEVER WE FEEL UR PRESENCE NEAR US WHILE SMOKIN WE STOP SMOKIN THINKING U MIGHT THROW SOMTHING AT US! AND WE ALWAYS SAY THAT WHEN WE GET 2 HEAVEN WE GOT AN ASSBEATIN WAITIN 4 US! IF THERE IS 1 THING I AM ABLOUSTLY SURE OF THAT'S U! I KNOW U BROUGHT BOOGER AND ME CLOSER 2GETHER AGAIN BECAUSE WE NEEDED 2 BE, WHEN HE CALLED ME SO UPSET THAT 1 NITE, I KNEW I WASN'T THERE 4 HIM LIKE I SHOULDA BEEN, IT SEEMS LIKE AFTER U PASSED BOOGER AND I WEREN'T AS CLOSE ANYMORE, LIKE WE JUST SORTA DERFITED APART FROM EACH OTHER , AND IT WASN'T THE RIGHT THING 2 DO. NOW THAT WE TALK EVERYDAY & NITE, WE FEEL JUST LIKE WE USED 2 CEPT 2 1 THIGN IS STILL MISSING, U! WE KNOW U R THERE BUTT SEEIN UR FACE WOULD MAKE US ALL FEEL BETTER, ASHLEY & I WERE TALKIN BOUT UR "HOMEADE ICED TEA", I'LL NEVER TELL UR SECERT! OR ELSE U'LL CHOP UR HEADS OFF RITE? LOL, I REALLY MISS U, I WOULD PROBALLY KILL TO SPEND 1 MORE AFTERNOON SHOPPING WTIH U, OR 1 MORE NITE AT THE MOVEIS, OR 1 MORE LONG DAY AT THE BEACH! I REMBER ALL THE THINGS WE USED 2 DO, I DON'T HAVE THE BEST MEMORY BUT BOGGER HAS HELPED THAT COME BACK 2 ME, LIKE LITTLE THINGS HERE & THERE ,ALL THE BIGGER  & GREATER THINGS HOW COULD ANY OF US EVER 4GET THEM? OR U? I STILL CRY AND IN MY HEART I STTILL FEEL THE PAIN AND I DON'T KNOW IF IT'S A GOOD THING 2 SAY OR A BAD THING BUTT IT DOSE NOT HURT AS BAD ANYMORE, IF ANYTHING IT ACTUALLY FEELS GOOD 2 WATCH OLD HOME VIDEOS  & HERE U LAUGH, SEE U SMILE, WATCH OUR OLD EVERYDAY ACTIVITES WE USED 2 DO. I STILL BALL LIKE A BABY WHEN I DO SEE THEM THOUGH. AND OMG UR GRAND KIDS R DROP DEAD GORUEOUS!!!!!  DAYTON AND CLAVIN R SO BEATIFUL! BJ, KRISTIE, JOHN, BOOGER THEY ALL R GOOD AND WELL AND MISS U LUV U LIKE CRAZY! BUT I DO NOT LIKE BABY JONS NEW GIRL FRIEND AT ALL, SHE LOOKS LIKE A STUCK UP BITCH! I LUV U SO MUCH & I MISS U WITH ALL MY HEART & I KNOW BIG JOHN STILL DOES, TOO I KNOW U SENT KRISTINE 2 HIM. THANK SO MUCH PATTI 4 ALL THE HELP U HAVE GIVEN ME, ALL THE LOVE U SHOW ME, AND ALL THE GOOD TIMES U TOUGHT ME 2 HAVE! LUV U WITH ALL MY HEART NEVER LET U GO! NOT EVEN IF U TELL ME WHAT IT TAKES TO LET YOU GO!!!!1  MUHH KISSES AND HUGSS LUV U AND MISS U LUV U AHH MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! GOD BLESS U OATTI, I DON'T WANNA STOP WRITTING OR LET THIS LETTER GO, BUT I GUESS I AHVE 2 CAUSE MOMS RUSHIN ME, PS HELP HER GET RID OF HER LIL BOY TOY PLZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOVE U SO MUCHES AHMAN! <3

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3yrs today  / Barb Davis (Sister)
Hi Patti, Today is 3 years that u left us... As the time goes on I still miss u as much as the day u left this earth. I dont think Ill ever be the same without u. I still want to call u at times, I miss u so much Patti.. Life does go on but it will never be the same Love u always, Barb Close

nevada / Barbara Davis (sister)
Hi Patti, Well Joanne, Diane and I went to Lake Tahoe Nevada and I took u with me, U also went to the Sammy hargar concert with us, Thanks 4 letting me meet Sammy! love u and miss u Barb Close

an angel to watch over you  / Wendy Jones (friend of joanne )

My thots & prayers are with your family that miss you so much Patti.
I know you are an angel watching,guiding & protecting them. They hurt because they miss you. I know your not suffering where you are now....may your family be strong & keep the fun.love & memories close to their heart. BLESS YOU ALL AS PATTI IS YOUR GURADIAN ANGEL!

~peace~n~love~wendy~n~tahoe~

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I will never forget you  / JoAnne Bierzynski (sister)
I just couldn't look at your website during the Holidays. I miss you so much and I will never stop missing you. it is so wrong that you are gone. I love you Patti. Close

Happy 40th Birthday Patti  / JoAnne Bierzynski (sister)
Today sould be a happy day but instead we all are still trying to understand why you had to die. I remember this day so clearly. It seems like yesterday I called a cab for ma and me and her went to the hospital and you were born. You were so cute and little with the biggest blue eyes, the most beautiful baby in the hospital. I'll never forget that day and I'll never forget the day you died. I wish I would have been with you. I will never forgive Moffit for taking you away from us. I hope you are at peace and I am so sad that you never made it "Over the Hill" What a party that would have been. I love you and miss you so much. My heart hurts without you in my life. Close

HAPPY BIRTHDAY PATII!!!!  / Tiffany Tartdosorcis (nieace)
Happy birthday Patti, tommorow u'll be 40. I wish u were here cause I'd make u a cake ( an orange cake, with chocalate frosting) and take a big bite out of it 4 u just like u did with B.J. every yeear on her birthday. God Patii, I love u and miss u so much. Wish I could vbe with u to celeabrate ur 40th birthday so bad.  Don't let all the teasing bother u, I love u & miss u, love Tiffany!!!!
   
          P.S. (Keep helping me with all my jokes and lift of spirit please!!!!) love u always Tiffany Close

Happy 40th Birthday  / Barbara Davis (Sister)
Well Patti, just because u r gone does not mean I wont tease u for turning 40 tomorrow.. I just wish u were here to share it with us...so.. ur over the hill ha ha... I wish I could walk down that hill to be with u, There isnt a day that doesnt go by that I dont talk about u or think of u,, 2yrs have gone by and I STILL wait for u to call or come over.. I feel u with me alot anymore, I know why u r with me in spirit but Id rather not say on here. My life went straight to hell since u left me.. Im just waiting for the day when God brings me to u and damn I hope he doesnt wait yrs to bring me there... If I could take my own life and know Id be with u I would of done it already... I dont know how much longer I can wait to see u again. So talk to God, mom and dad and let them all know I need to be with u all and come get me.. I love u and miss so much HAPPY 40th Birthday Patti, Ill eat some orange cake for u .. love u soooo damn much ur siamese sister, Barb Close

How you changed my life...  / Ricky Wojcik (Little Brother )
Patti,

   I still wake up crying from nightmares about losing my precious sister. There are so many things I should have told you about how you changed my life. You and I were the closest in age and grew up together and I alway looked up to you. I remember wanting to carry a purse when I was little so I could be like my sister Patti! Normally it is a big brother that protects the little sister, but it was the other way around with us! LOL! Please tell mom and dad that I love them and that one day that I will be joining you some day. Tell dad to make shure to get high speed internet in heaven! (I need my wireless internet!) Love you Patti... I only wish I would of told you more when I had the chance... Close

2 yrs ago  / Barb Davis (sister)
Patti, Im sorry I couldnt come on ur site on the 24th.. I couldnt handle it... I need u so much, I want u back.. Close

Nobody will stop missing you.  / Dustin Sullivan (nephew)
We all love and miss you. And it's never gonna stop being like that.


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2 years ago today.  / Tiffany Petardi (Niece)

Patti, u left us all 2 years ago today. And I miss u like u left us yesterday. To me it still feels like u were gone today but I just saw u yesterday, even though I didn't. I wish i could see u again and talk to u some more. God I know it's not true but I feel like I've been cheated out of my time with u. We still have so much to talk about, n so much to do. So many places to go, still so many things to do. I'll never get over ur death, EVER! I break down and cry all the time, GOD I miss u Patti, so bad!!! I'll never forget all the things we've done together, or all places we've been, and I'll never ever forget all u've done 4 me & my mom!!! It's just not fair how such a good person like u got tooken away from ur faimly and ur life so soon. I'll never forget the day u died, it was the worst day of my life. Knowing that I'll see u again, and ur in a better place, and that u're always there looking down at me and playing games with my head like bugs flyin on me in the car, and how u come into me and help me with things like messin with all the boys heads, and how I know u're there to guide me and help me and make me stonger is what helps get me threw this, that and our faimly. After 2 years it still feels like u left us today. I love u and miss u more n more each day. Untill I see u again I love u with all my heart and miss u with all my soul. Love always Tiffany.

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2 years and the loss is greater than ever  / JoAnne Bierzynski (sister)

Patti,
I miss you so much. Nothing is the same without you. I still feel so bad for leaving you that day and often wonder if I stayed if you would still be here. Maybe I could have talked you into holding on. I know the pain was bad or you would not have never left. Little sister I will never get over losing you, there is nothing anyone can say or do to make this pain in my heart less. As I light my candle today in memory of you I will cry, that is a given and I hope one day I can think of you and not cry. Save a place next to you for me we will have a lot to catch up on. At 12:40 I will look for you, I will know when you are there. I love you and miss you more than ever. God only takes the best.

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Two Years  / Tia Wood (Honorary Sister )
It's hard to believe tomarrow will be two years. I was just talking about you the other day to Michelle, Rick's wife. We all get along now and of course you already knew that. I finally got with the man I've always wanted to be with and of course you know that too.

It's hard maintaining this website and having to read all your friends and family's messages knowing they miss you so bad. I still feel you went before your time. We'll all meet up again someday!

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Patti, God how I wish u were here!  / Tiffany Petardi (Niece)
Patti, I miss u so much! I can't belive it's almost been 2 years scene u've been gone, and I miss u more & more each & every day! If u were still here I know my life would be so much better. I'd probally would still be in school or already have my job. And I just know for some strange reason that if u were here I'd most deffintly be with phillip! I am so in love & I love every moment of it! But, Patti please let me know, send me a sign if he really is even the least most tinyest bit instrested in me!       



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Dreams / JoAnne Bierzynski (sister)
Patti, I miss you so much. You are in my dreams and I feel you with me sometimes. I feel so bad because I t was my job to protect you and I let you down. Just when we were getting a chance to do things together God took you. I want you back so bad...just for one more day. I have so much to say to you......... Close

sweet 16?  / Tiffany Petardi (Niece)

Patti, today is my birthday second one without u. it's so hard not having u here. Nothing's the same without u and it never will be. Patti I missu so much. if every1 tells me today should be 1 of biggest days of my life. I just wis u were here so bad i love u love tiffany.

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I think about youeveryday  / JoAnne Bierzynski (sister)

Patti,
I still miss you so much....I think about you every day. I look back at pictures of you when you were in the hospital and the pain in your eyes is unbelievable. You suffered so much and that is what is so hard to accept. Life will never be the same without you, we all miss you. I pray you are at peace now. I love you now and always.

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